Moral of the story ...

Greetings :)

sometimes the real truth about yourself comes out from someone's anger. the bad things they said about you are SOMETIME's the real truth. not saying all of it but they might be true especially when they are seeking for revenge or they just hate you. so in this case just act normal don't change unless you yourself know that you are wrong. 

sometimes you just have to be patient on those who are trying to break you apart (by coincidence or not) try to remain calm cause deep down inside those people who work hard to make you angry is the one who is lonely. all they want is just a little attention. 

but there are cases when that person who looks so naive, so pure, so innocent asking for your help but behind you? that person is the one who talks bad about you, that person is the mean type, the selfish type and of course the manipulative type. what to do ? if you help too much he/she will step on your head but if you ignore he/she will talk bad behind your back. what's the solution to this ?

the lesson that I've learned is that this type of person needs to be teach . they need to wake up! I mean seriously is not like you are the only one who is having a problem . is not like this world is f*cking yours ! seriously wake up. don't make others hate you, don't add sins on others and to yourself . appreciate more less complain . "Before you talk, listen. Before you react, think. Before you criticize, wait." - unknown

remember that this is the opportunity for you to make good deeds . this is the moment where you can spend valuable times with your children . stop talking about the past!! it only hurts you more . “The past cannot be changed, forgotten, edited or erased. It can only be accepted.” - mkilaa

“What started out as a simple altercation, turned into a really sticky situation.”— Rihanna

yup because it is ! now who should I blame for that? I'm sorry, I may be too young to interfere into your life problems but I'm that old enough to understand what's going on.

I somehow sense that you are just confused. take a deep breath and beg God for forgiveness , mercy and thank Him. life must go on no matter what happens . "life is like riding a bicycle, to keep your balance you must keep moving on" - Albert Einstein 

I just hope you will realise that every person has it goods and bad in their self. the favourite or not, we are still a human being. we are still not perfect. I may be good in this and bad in that whilst you are good in that and bad in this. as simple as that. don't be too proud of it cause one slight mistake, its over. I may not be your favourite but I'm someone's favourite. “You might feel worthless to one person, but you are priceless to another. Don’t ever forget your value.” - LuanLegacy. praise to God that the person you love is still with you.

the moral of the story is move on. set positive thoughts in your mind. be a role model to your children.